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		<title>Do It Right The First Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 14:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Take a moment to ditch the emotion and be the professionals you are. Do the right thing the first time.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/09/webSCTF1-Rescue-School-047.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2280" height="150" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/09/webSCTF1-Rescue-School-047-150x150.jpg" title="OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA" width="150" /></a>I can&#39;t remember if I blogged this before, but if so, it bears repeating. When my brother and I were very young, my father, who was also a fire chief, brought home from work some pencils with the phrase, &quot;Do it right the first time&quot; inscribed on them. This message was brought up by my father many times throughout my life, although I&#39;ll admit, there are days even today when something goes wrong and I think back to that message.</p>
<p>It may take extra time that you don&#39;t think you have. That time may seem very valuable. The shortcut you take may seem like it saves those precious seconds. But I have seen in my life, many times when those shortcuts have proven catastrophic, and in most of those situations, I look at them and wonder, had someone taken a few extra moments to do it right, what the outcome might have been.</p>
<p>While the historical issue between response to rescues in New York City is frustrating and sad, since it seems to me to be the confluence of a power struggle and turf battle, instead of celebrating a terrific save the other day, instead we have <a href="http://statter911.com/2011/09/02/raw-video-car-falls-as-nypd-esu-tries-to-raise-it-off-motorcyclist-controversy-in-new-york-over-mans-death/">this tragedy to contend with, as shared with us by Dave Statter on his blog</a>.</p>
<p>I have always learned and always taught that when lifting, we &quot;crib to the lift&quot;. And while the spreaders are not the desired lifting tool, I have used them before and they have worked just fine. I preface that, however by explaining that I am also passionate about physics and when I have used spreaders, I also understood that the force applied must go somewhere, and if the load isn&#39;t stabilized, the force is going to create motion we don&#39;t want. In this case, the force displaced the object alright: lateral to the support (the spreader) and with nothing to support the load (cribbing) the load went to ground (and victim).</p>
<p>I don&#39;t care if you are FDNY, ESU, or anyone else. I have seen this very same shortcut taken before in departments that have had identically catastrophic results. I also recall other times when the load has shifted on the column, in <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/niosh/fire/reports/face200334.html">one case, three stacked air bags</a>. &nbsp;In this case, the firefighter, who happened to also be the salesman of the lift bags and should have a little expertise in their use, himself was killed.</p>
<p>There&#39;s a lesson to be learned in every tragedy. Aside from the physical principles that apply to all of us here on this planet, there&#39;s another very important one. Driving recklessly, failing to wear your seatbelt, not wearing proper PPE, not paying attention to overhead power lines, and in this case, not providing an alternate column to support the load via cribbing, all might seem like they are saving precious seconds, but failing to do the right thing the first time, ended instead in tragedy.</p>
<p>Take a moment to ditch the emotion and be the professionals you are. Do the right thing the first time.</p>
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		<title>Mick&#8217;s Maxims: Rules You Can Live By</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 13:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good ideas from someone who knows firefighters.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/08/hazmat.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2255" height="150" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/08/hazmat-150x150.jpg" title="hazmat" width="150" /></a><em>&quot;When planning any prank, it is considered a bad idea if the event involves explosives, flammables or combustibles of any form including gases, liquids, or solids, oxidizers, poisons, radioactives, corrosives, or other regulated materials. &nbsp;Keep to materials that don&#39;t have a requirement for a material safety data sheet and you should be okay.&quot;</em></p>
<p><em>&quot;Requirements for any individual to expose a body part in order to do something in your station activities is probably not something you want to be around when the planning or implementation is underway. &nbsp;In fact, anything that could be considered &#39;criminal conspiracy&#39; should be avoided at all costs.&quot;</em></p>
<p><em>&quot;When advising civilians on how to thank firefighters, the best advice is baked goods. &nbsp;I suspect there are very few departments out there who approve of tipping, providing tickets to sporting events, or special considerations like that. &nbsp;Food is always good and baked food is even better. &nbsp;And dessert is the best.&quot;&nbsp;</em></p>
<p><em>&quot;No matter how much that Junior wants you to hang out with them, any interaction between an adult male and a juvenile of either sex that doesn&#39;t involve mentoring, coaching, or training is likely to involve jail time.&quot;</em></p>
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		<title>An Atmosphere of Growth</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 14:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I doubt any of the haters are reading this, so I doubt it will have much impact, but perhaps, maybe it will.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/08/web2011-0710-015.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2165" height="150" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/08/web2011-0710-015-150x150.jpg" title="OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA" width="150" /></a>One of my best friends (who happens to be my &quot;B&quot; Shift counterpart) came back from his NFPA Committee meeting (mine was in Baltimore and his was in St. Louis. I&#39;m thinking we need to start doing these in Hawaii). He was telling me that during his travels, he happened to be having a discussion with an airline pilot. &nbsp;I guess the conversation came to the subject of safety and near-miss procedures. &nbsp;</p>
<p>According to this pilot, Chief H said, when there is a landing that isn&#39;t perfect, there is a culture of not pointing fingers that encourages the flight crew to report the event, discuss the factors, and to come up with methods to improve their performance. &nbsp;Sounds a lot like a near-miss policy to me, but the difference is that apparently, there is absolutely no resistance to reporting these issues because there is no threat of repercussion.</p>
<p>Now we have the Secret List and the Firefighter Near Miss Reporting System, and in our organization at least, we discuss standard operating guidelines in post-event critiques, but I don&#39;t know that those concepts even go as far as what Chief H was suggesting they do in this airline program. &nbsp;To me, it sounds a lot like common sense: instead of focusing on the situation that has already occurred, focus on the events we can fix or those we can grow to recognize and solve, and move forward.</p>
<p>But there is no way this kind of concept can evolve on many of these blogs. &nbsp;Hell, if anything is seen, like a glove missing or God forbid, someone isn&#39;t wearing their SCBA, it becomes a litany of what a dumbass the individuals are and how is it that these people are even still fighting fire.</p>
<p>Now while our department is very strict about the use of safety equipment and insuring best practices are followed, it is hardly a slamfest out there. &nbsp;If we see you don&#39;t have something, we suggest (pretty strongly) for you to go get it and wear it. &nbsp;This happens pretty rarely because we have squared away people who have been doing this stuff fairly often (with the exception of some of the rookies, of course). &nbsp;But really, we do make mistakes and there&#39;s a lot of times we laugh about it because once pointed out, everyone is pretty good about doing the right thing.</p>
<p>I&#39;d hate, however, for someone to take a photograph of us when we rolled up on a scene, however, and someone just so happened to have missed putting a glove on. &nbsp;In the case of a recent fire we had, there was significantly enough fire on the outside to cause the arriving officer to order a transitional attack. &nbsp;His company deployed two lines to the exterior to knock down the rapidly extending fire, which they did without donning masks. &nbsp;</p>
<p>The next due engine stretched an attack line to the front door and using proper PPE, made the knock on the inside. &nbsp;Confined to the two rooms we found burning when we got there, nobody hurt. &nbsp;Nobody was coughing or hacking and honestly, the most difficult part of the evolution was dealing with the mosquitoes. &nbsp;But just on the chance there was a picture taken of those first few seconds, we&#39;d have heard cries of &quot;sissy&quot; and &quot;outdoor firefighter&quot; from half the crowd and angry accustations of unsafe activity and amateurism from the other half.</p>
<p>Instead of showing the world you are the resident expert on firefighting (which I suspect half of the trolls would run crying at the sight of a real fire), why not use what you see on the blogs and posts to learn something from it and instead of sharing your incredible insight with us all, perhaps make some intelligent observations that could help others remember not to make those mistakes. &nbsp;I doubt any of the haters are reading this, so I doubt it will have much impact, but perhaps, maybe it will.</p>
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		<title>Zen Zone #2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 22:27:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brain food for Mongo.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/07/webDSC_0207.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1905" height="150" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/07/webDSC_0207-150x150.jpg" title="webDSC_0207" width="150" /></a>Professionalism begins at using our skills, abilities and past experience to improve service quality and to provide excellent service not just to the taxpayers, but to our colleagues. &nbsp;If you don&#39;t like the thought of referring to these others as customers, that&#39;s okay. &nbsp;Just think of them as human beings who need your help, because really, that&#39;s exactly what they are. &nbsp;How you label them is your choice.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2011 02:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who among us has not experienced anger at the inconsiderate moron who fails to pull to the right when we are well behind them, per[...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/06/webIMG_0137a1.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1844" height="200" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/06/webIMG_0137a1-300x200.jpg" title="webIMG_0137a" width="300" /></a>Being a reader of FHZ requires you to maintain an open mind. &nbsp;Even if you don&#39;t agree with both sides of the issues here, understanding the contrary view permits perspective and in some cases, deeper understanding of the root causes of things we consider trouble. &nbsp;For an example, consider the recent <a href="http://statter911.com/2011/06/09/must-see-video-driver-fired-lieutenant-demoted-over-fire-engine-road-rage-incident-in-orange-county-florida/">road rage incident</a>&nbsp;that seems to have piqued a considerable amount of interest. &nbsp;While I in no way sanction what was done, nor think it was a mature or acceptable way to handle the situation, realize that in many cases, feelings of frustration manifest themselves in angry, retaliatory behavior.</p>
<p>Who among us has not experienced anger at the inconsiderate moron who fails to pull to the right when we are well behind them, permitting us a free lane on the way to some emergency? &nbsp;Even in your personal automobile, how about the idiot who not only signals they are going to take a right turn, but then shoots across to two lanes of traffic to make a left? &nbsp;Like he couldn&#39;t just make the wrong turn, make a u-turn, and make things right?</p>
<p>Individuals have given themselves the freedom to make poor decisions, then be let off the hook because we shouldn&#39;t &quot;judge&quot; them, or because their mommy didn&#39;t hug them as a child, or whatever victim story they happen to choose this week. &nbsp;The reality is that while reacting negatively to those who act in error is not acceptable, neither is the act that sparked the reaction in the first place. &nbsp;Perhaps if our nation&#39;s law enforcement would start hauling off people who run red lights; who make erratic and unanticipated turns without use of a signal; those who drive too slowly in the passing lane, who fly down the shoulder to cut to the head of a merging line, or those who fail to pull to the right when an emergency vehicle is asking for the right of way, perhaps you might see a considerable decrease in road rage.</p>
<p>The base cause of indignity is usually the result of inconsiderate behavior. &nbsp;Someone flaunts the rules and disregards the normal values of society, and the enraged individual is angry at the injustice of the situation. &nbsp;I would be willing to bet that if anyone could write a ticket (not that I am an advocate of that), you&#39;d see a lot less road rage.</p>
<p>Why? &nbsp;Because if there were a non-violent method of resolving the conflict, I would be willing to bet that people would take that option. &nbsp;The problem is that there is no resolution. &nbsp;The enraged individual feels as if there is no way the situation will be resolved, they feel the injustice of the situation, and they act out in frustration, sometimes regardless of the consequences.</p>
<p>Now let&#39;s take this a step further. &nbsp;Think of a non-driving situation in which you were pushed to the edge&#8230;Was this reaction a result of powerlessness, of frustration evolved from conflict in which you were victimized and felt no method to resolve your issue? &nbsp;Perhaps it was an automatron manning the phone at your credit card company, or the cashier at Wally World, or the cable guy who doesn&#39;t show up when he says he will. &nbsp;You percieve a lack of power to change the situation and that lack of control becomes overwhelming. &nbsp;Over time, you may even be willing to act on it, in such a possibility, even inappropriately.</p>
<p>So what is the solution for our version of road rage? &nbsp;Education? &nbsp;Humorous attempts to enlighten the inconsiderate sometimes work, as in this fine <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ieQTBHvFsnY">example from the Tuscaloosa Fire Department</a>. Other attempts like this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndd5wChHDzk&amp;NR=1">one from Eugene, Oregon</a>&nbsp;and this one from an <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndd5wChHDzk&amp;NR=1">agency I can&#39;t read on their final slide</a>&nbsp;aren&#39;t as memorable (IMHO) but still get the message across.</p>
<p>But the more in-depth solution would be for individuals to maintain less distrations in their vehicles (phones, texting, and radios come to mind), and more overall awareness (simply paying attention to the fact that you SHARE the road with others). &nbsp;And likewise, the way for you to avoid conflict that cascades into an intractable situation would be to step back for a second and understand the other person&#39;s perspective, and recognize that your escalation of the incident, although it may very well be warranted, is pushing you and the other party toward a battle that someone is going to lose.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Conflict in life is inevitable. &nbsp;Conflict escalation and intractability is not. &nbsp;Be one of the first on your block to be the voice of sanity and work to understand, not to react.</p>
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		<title>A Belated Father&#8217;s Day Tribute</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 01:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bad behavior, regardless of fun plans and the desire to kiss and make up, must have consequences.  To not have consequences invite[...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/06/P1020175.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1834" height="200" src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/06/P1020175-300x200.jpg" title="P1020175" width="300" /></a>I probably could have posted this on Father&#39;s Day, but after the events I experienced this week, it&#39;s really good to see it in context. &nbsp;I continue to believe that being a father is a very difficult situation to be in sometimes.&nbsp; The other day, after being challenged by my daughter Caroline&rsquo;s afternoon (and evening) at the ER, I was dealing with that and put the other two out on the deck to play. &nbsp;We have a large kiddie pool, since I don&rsquo;t have the time, money, or patience to deal with a real pool.&nbsp; At one point, I noticed my oldest daughter Emma walking around with one of two Blackberry phones that were on our kitchen counter. &nbsp;These were phones previously used by my wife&#39;s company, and she wanted me to extract the data from them, especially pictures she had on one of them. &nbsp;Seeing this, I told Emma that they weren&rsquo;t toys and to put them back, but being a little distracted dealing with Caroline, didn&rsquo;t follow up on things.</p>
<p>Later that evening, while tucking the girls into bed, my wife found the second of the two Blackberries in my youngest daughter Honora&rsquo;s bed.&nbsp; The screen was waterlogged and upon opening the battery door, it was full of water.&nbsp; In short order we found the other Blackberry similarly waterlogged. &nbsp;The good news is that the children are still alive. &nbsp;Hopefully we are not out $750 worth of phones and a whole bunch of important work pictures. &nbsp;The phones will be sitting in rice for a few days and the culprits sitting in room restriction for a few days as well.</p>
<p>All children get into mischief and I weigh the situation against the likelihood that it wasn&rsquo;t intentional and maybe someday soon we will laugh about it. &nbsp;But the issue is that a certain amount of discipline must be leveraged to provide an effective and memorable lesson.&nbsp; The discipline must be appropriate for the situation, and of course, past infractions have to be counted.&nbsp; They haven&rsquo;t been very cooperative lately, so this really upped the ante. &nbsp;And while a spank on the rear might handle a quick tantrum or something like that, punishment for an event like this must deliver a life message and spanking won&#39;t cut it. &nbsp;So room restriction it is, and while they are there, we want the rooms spotless.&nbsp;</p>
<p>But as a parent, in this case, the effort is difficult.&nbsp; My wife is going out of town for the weekend and I had some fun things I wanted to do with the girls.&nbsp; I could easily change the discipline but what message would that send?&nbsp; I want badly to go into their rooms and hug them and tell them that there&rsquo;s a good chance I can resurrect the data, but after having specifically telling them the phones were off-limits, they disobeyed the order and everything ISN&rsquo;T just okay. &nbsp;Smiling and making nicey-nice is not going to help things any, except in the immediate moment. &nbsp;Failing to listen to an order must bear repercussions.</p>
<p>People often remark about how good our children are and we take a lot of pride in that.&nbsp; But they see the result of lots of second-guessing, mistakes and heartbreak, because that&rsquo;s what being a parent is like if you are doing your job.&nbsp; You struggle between doing what&rsquo;s best to positively reinforce good behavior and what&rsquo;s best to discourage bad behavior. &nbsp;And bad behavior, regardless of fun plans and the desire to kiss and make up, must have consequences.&nbsp; To not have consequences invites repeated poor performance.</p>
<p>Honestly, I have it easier than some people have it, because my kids are pretty good.&nbsp; But it&rsquo;s a continual cycle; they are good, and they make it easier to provide positive experiences.&nbsp; When they are bad, we struggle with wanting to continue to be affectionate and supportive, even though we know that to act like everything is okay would not send the right message.</p>
<p>Caring leaders endure the same exact experiences.&nbsp; If you choose, re-read what I just wrote and insert &ldquo;leader&rdquo; in the context every time you see &ldquo;dad&rdquo;.&nbsp; As a command officer, I make decisions that on occasion, must be followed regardless of what those who are recieving end want to do, or feel like doing. &nbsp;They may even want to question my decision. &nbsp;In this case, there must be repercussions to disobeying a direct order.</p>
<p>Making discipline mean something is required to elevate the attention level of the subject. &nbsp;Some people can be reached with something as simple as a look. &nbsp;Some require the equivalent of a 2&#215;4 across the head. &nbsp;And enforcing discipline hurts for us sometimes as well because those decisions are based on experience and understanding of a particular situation, but those decisions are contrary to the desires of the &quot;children&quot;. &nbsp;Sometimes, despite insisting that what we say is right, our children disobey us, and discipline is invoked, in order to reinforce a message. Likewise with our subordinates.</p>
<p>I try to support positive behavior through positive reinforcement.&nbsp; And when I have to administer discipline, I struggle with doing so, because, as a good leader, I probably care more than I should.&nbsp; But I also know that I am fortunate to have good people who, given the chance, will make good decisions, and I like to think that is a continual cycle.</p>
<p>Consider this when you lead.&nbsp; You are responsible for the welfare of the people who you supervise.&nbsp; If you are the designated leader, you have to be proactive, and provide opportunities for success.&nbsp; But when things don&rsquo;t go right, it is not time to be everyone&rsquo;s best friend.&nbsp; It is time to do what is right and that involves, more often than not, making hard decisions that benefit all involved. &nbsp;As I say often to my children, &quot;I am not your friend, I am your father. &nbsp;If we get along we can be friends, but I am your father first.&quot; &nbsp;Feel free to insert &quot;boss&quot; in lieu of &quot;father&quot; in that statement as well.</p>
<p>My children will survive this event and live to tell about it, as will we. &nbsp;But hopefully we will now have further understanding as to what is expected and the consequences of failure. &nbsp;And in the same respect, when you have that moment with your charges, they should too.</p>
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		<title>We Try Harder</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 02:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#34;Zero defects&#34; is a pretty lofty goal, but in our business, zero defects may be the difference between life and death.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_1758" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/weblouisiana-3-148.jpg"><img src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/weblouisiana-3-148-225x300.jpg" alt="" title="weblouisiana 3 148" width="225" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-1758" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">SC-TF1 Demobilizing From Chalmette, LA after Hurricane Katrina, 2005.</p></div>I had the opportunity to be part of a test rehearsal for a web conference going on Friday.  In one of the questions, we were asked, &#8220;If you had to give your department a grade, what would it be?&#8221; I was the only one who gave my department an &#8220;A&#8221;.  Of course, when you see that you have made a choice like that, you immediately begin to second-guess yourself.</p>
<p>I was pretty self-conscious about that decision, even though nobody knew who answered each question and nobody would have known it was me that graded us so. I actually thought about it long afterward, in an attempt to understand in my absolute certainty with 10 seconds on the clock, that we deserved the highest mark on a standard grade. It was, frankly, a little presumptuous of me.</p>
<p>The quick answer is that we don&#8217;t deserve an “A”. We are definitely customer oriented and we are definitely aggressive firefighters who use best practices and manage our risk appropriately.  We are definitely on the leading edge of EMS delivery and while we are not THE organization by which all should be measured, many would be doing pretty well to do so.  </p>
<p>But while we are definitely making huge strides and we have many accomplishments, we aren’t where we feel we should be.  That is universally agreed upon in our organization.  There is just too much to do, and while we are hitting the high priority items, there are so many things we want to do, and have begun doing, but there are only 24 hours in a day and finite resources otherwise at our disposal.</p>
<p>It is for the same reason, perhaps, that I should instead embrace the criticism of some in the knowledge that the minute we stop reassessing our service we become complacent.  Don&#8217;t believe for a second that I don&#8217;t take the criticism personally, because although I shouldn&#8217;t, I do.  Just as you know all the idiosyncrasies of your own children, you&#8217;d never stand for anyone else criticizing them.  And, after 29 years of being part of the core individuals who pushed, pulled and shaped what is now known as our department, I have very little patience for the particular individuals who have come along since with a lot of criticism and no substantive contributions.  My personal take on it, in fact, is that we have a list of people who would be happy to take their jobs.</p>
<p>Our line of reasoning, however, should be to embrace the constructive criticism that can be drawn from some of the comments. We should always perform self-critique, but self-critique is not self-immolation.  We should always be pulling lessons from where we are and where we want to be, and the reason why we aren&#8217;t where we want to be.  But this isn’t an effort to tell us what a bad job we are doing, but ways in which we need to improve.  </p>
<p>The minute we begin to believe we are Number One in the county, the state, the region, or the nation, and we begin to believe we are “The Best”, we (all of us) tend to believe we can’t learn from others or from ourselves.  It also demeans the rest of those who do an excellent job providing service with the resources they have in the community they must serve.  Of all things, though, it’s pretty presumptuous again to suggest that we are the best at anything other than delivering the emergency services on Hilton Head Island, because really, that’s all that matters.</p>
<p>My own personal vision for our organization is to be one of those departments that others hold up to say, “This is the gold standard.  This is how we want to be”.  We continue to make leaps in that direction.  We are, though, our own worst critics.  We need to always be looking out for better ways to improve.  Daily, we must try harder.</p>
<p>The effort must be placed on continual improvement.  &#8220;Zero defects&#8221; is a pretty lofty goal, but in our business, zero defects may be the difference between life and death, between going home in the morning or going home in the hosebed of the rig under a pair of crossed aerials.</p>
<p>Never get complacent.  Never believe you are the best, at least not for longer than it takes to get to the desired result, then to take a breath, look around, and say, “Where to from here?”  The moment we stop, we die.  We should always resolve to do better each time we are presented with a new challenge and to dig out whatever lessons we can observe from our current situation.  There is no time to dwell on it, though.  Digest it, make the adjustment, and move on.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 21:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have heard it said that the only reason a bee can fly is because it doesn&#039;t know it shouldn&#039;t.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/webJuly-Download-2010-332.jpg"><img src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/webJuly-Download-2010-332-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="webJuly Download 2010 332" width="300" height="225" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1751" /></a>I have heard it said that the only reason a bee can fly is because it doesn&#8217;t know it shouldn&#8217;t.  And I am fully aware that this notion has been debunked because those beliefs were originally based on fixed wing aerodynamics, however, I wasn&#8217;t interested so much in that as I was in the quote.</p>
<p>I happened to be listening to a podcast of TEDTalks, in particular, the <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/caroline_casey_looking_past_limits.html">disabled activist Caroline Casey speaking about looking past limitations</a>.  It is really a motivating talk when you listen to it and I don&#8217;t want to spoil the surprise for you, but the point she humorously makes is that often, the limits on what we can do are ones we have put there ourselves.  If we don&#8217;t know we have limitations, there&#8217;s really no saying that we can&#8217;t do something.  This of course assumes that whatever it is that you are trying to achieve is possible within the laws of physics; for example, I don&#8217;t know if I can or cannot lift a Yugo because I have never tried, but something tells me that it&#8217;s not likely. I know I can&#8217;t overhead press a Suzuki GS750E, so logically I know certain limits.</p>
<p>But in achieving our dreams, the amazing thing about the human mind is that if we don&#8217;t know how to do something, and we are innovative enough and curious enough, we can take what resources we have and solve problems.  After all, mankind has been doing this since the invention of the wheel, and our creativity continues to evolve daily with each new thing we know (and each thing we don&#8217;t).</p>
<p>As leaders, we have to not just eliminate barriers for our subordinates&#8217; success, but to avoid putting ideas of failure in their head as well.  I can think of a number of occasions in my life where I was discouraged from doing something because the individual themselves saw it as &#8220;impossible&#8221; or &#8220;unrealistic&#8221;.  I know of times where my own vision was belittled by people whom I should have been getting encouragement from instead.  </p>
<p>There is a difference between coaching or mentoring to consider timing and resource allocation, or simply looking at alternatives, and complete undermining of your dreams.  In my own case, sometimes I wonder what those people say now that I have made some of those dreams possible? </p>
<p>Failure is something to be expected when we are stretching forward.  We reach until we slip and fall.  But success comes when you learn to recover from failure.  If you have to be propped back up every time you get knocked down, it doesn&#8217;t build resilience, it builds dependence.  A key secret to success is to appreciate the failures for what they are: a lesson. Develop ideas based on those experiences and get back on the road again.</p>
<p>We need to understand that dreams are what positive change is made of.  If we aren&#8217;t focusing on the hurdles, we won&#8217;t be worried about clearing them.  And if we happen to hit one of those hurdles, we keep our eyes on the goal and figure out what it takes to get there. Look to the finish line and reap the reward of success.  </p>
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		<title>Tillered Aerials and Safety Collaboration</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 13:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We find too often that people are unwilling to accept the observations and experiences of others and instead &#34;reinvent the wheel&#34; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_1743" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/webHHIFR070919-22.jpg"><img src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/webHHIFR070919-22-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="webHHIFR070919 (22)" width="300" height="225" class="size-medium wp-image-1743" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Hilton Head Island Truck 6 working in Palmetto Dunes.</p></div>In the years before becoming a chief officer I spent the very large majority of my career as a truck company officer. The last ten years of my assignment to Truck 6 was spent on the tractor-drawn aerial we currently have.  The crews assigned to Six-Truck will have a &#8220;new&#8221; ride soon; our reserve tiller is off being re-tractored and the trailer refurbished.  Once the new one returns, the ALF piece that served us valiantly for all these years will then rotate to reserve status.</p>
<p>Since I was the lifer truckie captain and one of only three in the department who had even sat behind the wheel of a TDA before (I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s the only reason I got the job), I got to shop, spec, purchase, equip, and train the company in our new concept.  We brought in an expert who was likewise, a lifer truckie, and learned to drive the TDA the old fashioned way (drive it around the parking lot for a while).  </p>
<p>My observation was such that, as an educator, there was probably a more effective method of developing drivers for this specialized piece of machinery.  When we were doing research on writing a course on driving tillers, I found a shocking lack of information (at that time) on them and ultimately, a few colleagues and I developed the coursework from which we certify our personnel to drive.  This, to satisfy the naysayers, also involved INTENSIVE driving of the vehicle: beachfront parking lots during summer, night driving, driving in the rain, and lots and lots of situational stuff.  Needless to say, when we were done, that first round of drivers was pretty proficient. </p>
<p>Lately we have been finding that there is a desire for some to want to reduce the requirements for TDA chauffeurs and tiller operators and I expressed my opinion that this was not the way to go.  Our organization does all kinds of stuff in our community in conjunction with our customer service outlook, as well as respond on emergencies.  Time is very valuable, but I also know of a long and distinguished history of TDA mishaps that each time point to a missed element of discipline and training.  There are basic laws of physics that really come into play with a tractor-drawn aerial that don&#8217;t in your basic straight frame aerial, and I have been less than tolerant of relief drivers who don&#8217;t understand that. </p>
<p>So you can imagine my interest when I found out about this video collaboration between the Raleigh and Seattle Fire Departments as can be seen here:<a href='http://www.seattlechannel.org/videos/video.asp?ID=4843' >Raleigh and Seattle Collaborative Training Video</a>  I have been watching to see what lessons we might get out of the Raleigh TDA rollover and it seems as if we will have a very valuable tool for educating not only TDA drivers, but all firefighters as well.</p>
<p>But while this could evolve into an entire lesson on driving tillered apparatus, the discussion I want to actually have is that there is a wealth of information out there that you all have the opportunity to obtain.  We find too often that people are unwilling to accept the observations and experiences of others and instead &#8220;reinvent the wheel&#8221; regularly, wasting time and money in the process.  But these two departments saw needs and worked together to produce a valuable teaching tool.</p>
<p>There is no shame in finding out what mistakes (or positively, what efforts) have been previously made in our business and asking questions about he good, the bad, and the ugly.  This is called research.  We ask questions to determine an answer to a problem and rely on science and experience to make decisions.  The problem is, it requires effort and it requires being candid about the issues.  But no progress gets made without learning about what went right and what went wrong.</p>
<p>Check out the video and tell me what you think.  I have already viewed it a number of times and take away something new each time.  We are fortunate (and thankful) that no one was killed in this event.  And it goes without saying, I thank both departments for their sincere effort in making the job safer.  But the lessons learned are no good to anyone if we keep them locked up in a closet.  Share the knowledge, collaborate, and learn from one another.</p>
<p>Note: I meant to add this link as well and failed to do it: <a href="http://www.fireengineering.com/index/articles/display.articles.fire-engineering.apparatus-__tools.2011.04.rollover-video.html">The Fire Engineering article that spurred my interest</a>.  I like to give credit where credit is due.</p>
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		<title>The Way of The Chief</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael "Mick" Mayers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What constitutes the next leader of the fire service?  Which qualities break someone out from the pack?  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/web2011-0219-141.jpg"><img src="http://firehousezen.com/files/2011/04/web2011-0219-141-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="web2011-0219 141" width="300" height="225" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1730" /></a>The chief who is resolute, brave, and strong is capable of leading fire companies into battle.  The chief who is intelligent and visionary is capable of developing the department.  Chiefs who are strong and brave, while possessing intelligence and vision, are capable of leading thousands.</p>
<p>We tend to think that one set of characteristics is independent of the other, when in fact, there are those who have learned to develop all of these qualities.  Rhett Fleitz, over on <a href="http://firecritic.com/2011/04/who-is-the-next-fire-service-leader/">Fire Critic</a>, posed the question, &#8220;Who will be our new leaders in the fire service?&#8221;  Who are tomorrow&#8217;s Brunos and Yvarras?  Our Downeys and Dunns?  The Brennans and the Brannigans?  What did these people possess that we, perhaps, do not?</p>
<p>Maybe things like charisma, or an innate knowledge of what ideas stick and how to sell them to others?  Or perhaps it is simply a passion for their ideas?  Is it that they cared for others so much that they were/are compelled to share all of their riches, which in their cases were their vision of something better than the status quo?</p>
<p>If you look at my list, you&#8217;ll note that some of those names are no longer with us and some still are.  While legends may grow after someone passes away, none of the individuals identified in my short list became legendary only after their demise.  In fact, when they left us, they were very much in the leading edge.  Those on the list who are still among us, although retired, are still sharing their passion with us today.  They could easily have gone to hang out at the pool and sip Mimosas, but they still can be heard and seen, sharing their vision, and probably will up to the day they too leave us (hopefully nowhere near soon).</p>
<p>When you think about who these new visionaries are, do you say to yourself that they should be instruments of conveying today&#8217;s knowledge or are they those who share the idea of what it could be if we all apply ourselves?  Because of today&#8217;s ability to reach out over the internet, I&#8217;d suggest there may be more &#8220;candidates&#8221; for those &#8220;positions&#8221;, simply because we were limited, in the early days of my career, to those who were able to come to me, or I to them.  Now you can find an expert on every click of the mouse.</p>
<p>What constitutes the next leader of the fire service?  Which qualities break someone out from the pack?  You tell me.  As far as I am concerned, we have lots of leaders now, and we have none.  We should all be reaching out to exceed even what we perceive is our potential, understanding that the only limitations we possess are the ones we have given ourselves or gave permission to others to place on us.  Until we can look past what is and look toward what can be, we will remain right here in our own existence.  As Gandhi said, &#8220;Be the change you wish to see in the world.&#8221;  If you want to be the next leader, it&#8217;s yours to reach out and grab.</p>
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