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Loser

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In our business, unfortunately, we don't always get to pick when and where we have our battles.  I don't mean this in the context of leading, but in the context of response and operations.  

Simply said, our overarching goal as an incident commander should be to dictate the conditions, not to permit the conditions to dictate to us.  But no matter what, we are on the defense on every call, despite our terminology; we didn't choose to engage in battle at the time, it was chosen for us, so offensive, defensive, or transitionally, we are really always starting on the idea that we defend, even if that defense is an aggressive offense.

Sun Tzu's warnings are clear that a good general doesn't go into battle unprepared.  Zhuge Liang's commentaries on leadership suggest the need for picking the place of engagement to obtain maximum effect.  Clausewitz cautions that we have to cut through the "fog of war" to get to the real essence of situational awareness.  But these classics all are predicated on the general's ability to maneuver out of a situation where they are put into conflict without adequate preparation.  We don't have that luxury.

When we are called out after midnight to respond to a structure fire, we are already on our heels.  When we are alerted to a cardiac arrest on a fine spring afternoon, we didn't necessarily expect it to happen.  We prepare for these events through training, but what we can't prepare for are the contributing factors that led to this disaster occurring at that moment, at that place, and in that context.  The fight may already be lost by the time we arrive to the battlefield and we have to keep that idea tucked away in the back of our heads and prepare for the proper reaction to those events.  Adding to disaster by refusing to admit our need to defend is the downfall of many a general, and many a fire chief.

On a recent call, my crews were unable, despite extraordinary and valiant efforts, to reverse the outcome.  In the past, perhaps they would be more accepting, but in light of recent changes to our strategies, these guys have been enjoying the fruits of their labor and they have been pulling off some amazing work.  Today, however, all of that effort was notable, but not able to change what was already writ.  I could see the expressions on their faces as they questioned what else they could have done.  I spoke with them and encouraged them, but it was obvious, they had gotten so used to winning that losing was just not an option.

Despite our best efforts, we lose from time to time.  There are parking lots out there that were predestined, rather than created by failure on the part of the incident commander.  People die sometimes catastrophically, with the only possible saving intervention being bright lights and cold steel.  Rather than dwell on the loss, it is imperative that we review our actions, determine the things we did right, analyze the things we could improve on, and prepare for the next battle.  The greatest sports teams, the most powerful armies, and the most skilled negotiators lose on occasion.  The difference between their continued success and sliding into the pit of failure is their ability to look creatively and insightfully to what occurred and to create means of learning from the issues they were presented.  If anything, simply maintaining status quo might be a save if the only other alternative was lost ground.

Good leaders find value even in a loss.  They may not like it and in fact, should not.  But they can look at the loss and see the opportunity to educate and to reset things, if that is necessary.  We should never "accept" a loss, but use it for what it is; a chance to grow.

Leadership That Matters, Part 6

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Altruism is not group-think and shouldn’t be confused as such. Altruism is considered what is better for others based upon societal norms, not on the populist vote.  And selfishness isn’t the absolute reason why others fail to consider the altruistic option when faced with a choice.  Many other factors can fall into play, but an important one to consider in our leadership context is that of the overwhelming desire to fit in, to be part of the “gang”.  Because if being part of a bigger whole is important for very primordial reasons, sometimes that urge to be part of the group supersedes what is really right as part of society.

A person’s maturity levels obviously factor in; their ability to stave off impulsiveness to do what is right for others as a whole compared to what seems to be right for themselves or for the group we happen to be in at the time.  Helping a fellow member of a criminal gang escape detection at risk of your own incarceration, for example, might seem to be altruistic. In the sense that self-sacrifice for the group might meet that definition, what about the rest of society?  Really, what is and isn’t altruistic, then, is entirely based upon what the individual considers to be right.  We have to really look at what is right by being fellow human beings, or int he context of your faith, or whatever values you happen to have.  Eating other humans, I think we all agree, is wrong.  But there are those who, in certain contexts, might legitimately argue otherwise.  I'm not trying to tell you here what is wrong or right.  The purpose of this series is to get you to THINk about what is wrong or right and PERSONALLY lead and set the example in the regard of what is right.

Take for example in World War II Germany, German citizens helping oppressed Jews escape, which at the time, would have been considered contrary to German law.  While we would all consider ignoring those laws and assisting escape to be demonstrating altruistic behavior, given the atrocities being conducted and the values of our society, there are things we also must consider in the scope of right and wrong.  While I certainly don't defend it, perhaps those who were “law abiding” members of German society might have considered those life-saving actions to be against the values of that society.  Given the importance in Germanic culture of  conformity to society and lawfulness, I can see, while I don't agree, that their perspective has some context worth discussing.  It is all very much contextual as to what is and isn’t valuable and sacrificial when it comes to the actions we consider altruistic.  What is for the good of man versus what is for the good of society, on a daily basis, causes us to disagree as to what actions are for the good.

So this conflict we endure is very real, very tangible, and while we personally may feel that the actions one takes are not necessarily “good”, one might reason otherwise in the context of for whom the good is being served.  Bad decisions sometimes don’t come about because someone is a sociopath, but because their judgment as to what is right is temporarily clouded for any number of reasons.

Take another recent example: the crying kid at the Yankees game and the “terrible” couple who wouldn’t give him the ball that had been tossed into their seat.  This story went rabidly viral.  People were shaming the couple.  Supposedly less than altruistic behavior, most of us thought, the selfishness, the greed.  What we didn’t know was this: the couple was to be married this weekend and they were celebrating at the game together.  According to the child’s PARENTS, who have gone on national news, the couple, in fact, offered to give the child the ball.  But the PARENTS, sensing a life lesson on not getting what you want through screaming and throwing a tantrum, opted NOT to take the ball.

We don’t always have the facts before we rush to judgment of another.  It takes a lot of discipline; discipline that I personally don’t always have, to take a step back, gather the information, and then make a determination of action or inaction. We have a spot detection of what is right and what is wrong.  So not every act that defies what we consider to be altruistic is.  It isn’t our place to say it is either.  But we can focus on ourselves and make better decisions in that manner.  And we can educate others in how to be better themselves.

Leadership That Matters, Part 5

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My inner cynic reminds me that many people are selfish.  One trip to an amusement park, your local Walmart, or even trying to get out of the church parking lot, can reinforce that observation.  In western society, our philosophy has been to tell our children that they need to “look out for number one”.  Survival is attached to being the fittest.

This aspect of our culture has driven us to become bigger and better.  I certainly don't believe there is anything wrong with improving our situation, with developing and becoming a global leader in everything from innovation to education to any number of advances.  There is, however, balance that can be achieved, because the competition comes at a price.  Again, in the documentary I Am, Tom Shadyac discovered that  cooperation may be nature’s most fundamental operating principle.   As I brought up in LTM4, Professor Wilson's discussion regarding social behavior and the advancement of species, how altruism actually increased the propagation of humans and insects.  But consensus decision-making is not limited to these two either.  Altruistic behavior has been found amongst many species, including fish, birds, deer and primates. 

Competition implies conflict by its very nature.  A favorite line of mine in regard to competitive behavior (which I heard first in the movie Cars, but after searching, I have found attributed to Dale Earnhardt) is: "Only the winner wins; second place is the 'first loser'”. The call to be competitive has been drowning out the call to work together for a long time, but seems even more so in the last decade. The “Me” Generation has not left us and may not ever, unless a sea change occurs.  The attention span of the average citizen of Earth isn’t more than a few seconds.  "Why should I consider the effects of our actions on others?" one might ask. "All I care about is what is happening NOW."

Again, we return to context.  While one might not be inclined to do what is best for society because of their own selfish reasons, the facts illustrate that adversarial relationships within groups hinder success while altruistic behavior increases the chances for success.  From a purely objective outlook, there are more rewards for practicing altruism than not.  The question is, then, why won't people see this from that objective point of view?

Grow Up

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Photo taken from imdb.orgLet me begin by saying, I am the number one fan of Animal House.  I would never do anything to disparage the film or any of its characters.  And I am not being Dean Wormer here.  But it's time to put that little part of our lives behind us for a moment, although it is a part of me I can never quite leave behind.  So here's a little test.

Consider the events in Holyoke, MA over the past week or so. If the action you are about to take would cause undue embarrassment to you or your organization, or your family and loved ones, would you still do it? If your action was the cause of something that makes the front page, or the national news, and it's not something you are proud of, would you do it? If the action you are about to take would invoke criminal or civil penalties against you, would you still do it?

What happened here was a very innocent practical joke on the part of an interim chief.  I feel badly for him and I really don't believe this chief to be an idiot (as some have stated) or a criminal (as others have), or even a bad guy.  I don't even know the man.  But what he did, especially in the anti-public servant climate within which we are currently suffering, was not exercising good judgment.

There is nothing about this incident that suggests that anything happened here other than an attempt at a little levity, albeit at the expense of violating the laws about calling in false alarms.  Am I judging the man or his actions?  No.  I don't know all the facts, although they seem pretty apparent on their face.  Do I understand the mentality?  Yes.  I have moved a fire engine parked at the supermarket to the other side of the parking lot along with a few other practical jokes. But the next blog post will be all about THAT angle regarding leadership, so stay tuned.  I don't believe anything other than that this was a practical joke gone wrong. 

But in light of this incident, maybe instead of testing someone's physical fitness, their aptitude for reading a sentence, or the many other things we should be testing and aren't, maybe we should put at the top of the priority list, a test for maturity.  Because other than the only test that seems to be important in some departments these days – that would be the ability to fog a mirror – we insist on knowing all these important things about how much someone can lift, or how fast they can run stairs, or how fast can they calculate 2+2 and we miss out on what seems to be the heart of our industry's problem.  If you haven't picked up on it, that would be a test for whether or not the individual we are about to hire or promote is capable of objectively separating their inner teenager from the responsibilities of adulthood.

Again, lest you think this is all about pranksterism, there are actually many examples of where a certain level of maturity is important, and why it's not a good idea to have people associate with us that think it is okay to video someone lighting fireworks out of your ass.  The public perception these days is swinging toward the "bunch of overgrown kids pretending to be important" side and away from the "upstanding citizen who is here to keep us safe" side.  While some of our colleagues might not see that as being important, the public, when choosing to spend their hard earned dollars, are really not interested in sending money in the direction of waste and frivolous behavior.  They want to be reassured that the individuals to whom they are entrusting their tax dollars are responsible, thoughtful, and perceptive.  People who are making the news wire for setting fires, calling in prank false alarms, stealing from treasuries, and any other number of violations of society, are NOT considered as being responsible, thoughtful or perceptive.  In fact, if this is news to you, haven't you probably ALSO been the ones complaining because the public doesn't love you anymore?  Acting like you are still a member of Delta Tau Chi is not okay when you pin bugles on your collar (and I am the number one Animal House fan, remember?)  Sophomoric behavior is best left to sophomores. 

There are a number of us who are frustrated with the eroding public trust that comes about when certain participants in our field act like a bunch of day care refugees.  The failure for some to consider the ripple effect their actions have on others is incredible.  We are in a real struggle to define the fire and emergency services.  There are daily reports of communities downsizing departments, "renting" them out (that would be privatizing them), or simply reallocating funds that would have been spent on fire and emergency services to other competing interests.  We are at war here for our very existence, and every negative report is used against us, implicitly or not, to give rationale as to why we (fire and emergency services) shouldn't get the support we need.

There is no need to comment that I'm sucking the fun out of the job.  Right now, we need to be working harder than ever to save our standing in the community, be it as a career or volunteer professional.  We definitely don't need our own people shooting our efforts in the feet.  Fun is when we can come out of a good worker safely, with a smile on our face because we did a good job; or high-fiving in the nurse's lounge because we just pulled an asystolic patient out of their nose-dive and they are sitting up talking in Bed 2.  Fun is when we are on the training ground joking around with each other while resting after a particularly challenging evolution.  

Grow up. Fun doesn't come unless you earn it.  It's not fun being a loser.  You can have fun all day long, but in the end, if you haven't accomplished anything, you're just one more clown among many.  When you are truly professional, you can work hard and have fun at it too.