I am not what most people would call superstitious. If a black cat crosses my path, I don't really care; I carefully walk under ladders not because I believe in some unseen hex but because something may fall on my head.
So on Christmas Eve, of all days, I happened to be at a funeral for the three-year-old child of a brother firefighter. Between this tragedy and all the other events of this year, it certainly seems as if 2012 has not been very good to many of us. I was walking along and looked down to see a bright, shiny penny, heads up, on the ground. I bent down to pick it up.
Right now, we need all the luck we can get.
We are all seeking answers to our personal questions as to how bad things can happen to good people. We all have our own battles to deal with, in our statuses, our relationships, our beliefs and our values. The source of the answers can only come from within and it takes some really tough moments of introspection to reflect on the bad and what good may have come from it to understand that there may be lessons for us all in these events.
Don't let it all get to you. If you need a friend, find a friend. Reach out to others. Take part in your community and give back to those who need help. Challenge yourself. But in the words of the Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam:
The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ,
Moves on: nor all thy piety or wit,
Shall lure it back to cancel half a line,
Nor all thy tears wash out a word of it.
We can't change the past, but we can learn from it. Have a better year in 2013 and look forward, looking back only to understand where we are today came from the things that happened to us yesterday. Instead of dwelling on it, move forward from it.